Music has long been a source of comfort for those navigating profound grief. For David Draiman, the lead singer of the iconic heavy metal band Disturbed, this became heartbreakingly real when he learned about the tragic loss of the Bibas family. His song, “Hold on to Memories,” became an anthem of solace for Yarden Bibas, the only surviving member of his family taken captive on October 7, 2023.
The Tragic Story of Yarden Bibas and His Family
The devastating attack on October 7 saw thousands affected, but the story of Yarden, his wife Shiri, and their two young sons, Ariel and Kfir, resonated with millions. Kidnapped and taken to Gaza, their story became one of global heartbreak. Tragically, Shiri and the two children were later confirmed deceased, making Yarden the sole survivor of his immediate family.
The loss was immeasurable, and for Israel, it marked one of the darkest days in its modern history. The collective mourning was reflected in an enormous funeral, where Yarden sought solace in music, specifically in the song “Hold on to Memories” by Disturbed.
David Draiman’s Emotional Connection to the Tragedy
When Draiman was informed by Ari Ingel of Creative Community for Peace that Yarden intended to play his song at the funeral, he was deeply moved. The realization that his music could bring even a fragment of comfort to a grieving father in such unimaginable pain left him overwhelmed.
He reached out to Yarden personally, offering his support, friendship, and an open invitation to any Disturbed concert. That conversation reportedly marked the first time Yarden had smiled since his release, a testament to the profound power of music to heal even the deepest wounds.
The Symbolism of the Bibas Family
For many, the Bibas family became a symbol of resilience, loss, and the ongoing persecution faced by the Jewish community. The world’s response, or lack thereof, to their suffering has sparked outrage. Many have pointed out the silence of Hollywood and global leaders regarding the brutal reality of hostage situations and the atrocities of October 7.
Draiman’s reflections touch on the fear of speaking out against antisemitism. He highlighted Adrien Brody as one of the few voices in Hollywood to address this issue during his Oscar acceptance speech. Yet, the broader silence remains deafening, leaving many frustrated and disillusioned.
The Impact of “Hold on to Memories”
Inspired by the song “Remember Me” from the animated movie Coco, “Hold on to Memories” was originally written as a tribute to Draiman’s late friends, including Chester Bennington, Scott Weiland, and Chris Cornell. Over time, it has taken on an even greater significance, resonating with those who have endured unimaginable loss.
Music has an unparalleled ability to transcend time, transporting listeners to past emotions, memories, and moments. Draiman acknowledges that performing “Hold on to Memories” in the future will be an emotional challenge, knowing the depth of meaning it now holds for Yarden and countless others who have found solace in its lyrics.
The Larger Implications: A Call for Awareness and Change
Beyond the personal tragedy, Draiman expresses anger at the global response—or lack thereof—to acts of terror and violence against Jewish communities. He condemns the indoctrination of hatred and the use of human shields, highlighting the stark contrast between Israel’s right to self-defense and the continued exploitation of innocent lives in conflict.
Until the cycle of hatred is broken, Draiman believes, true peace in the Middle East will remain elusive. His words serve as a powerful reminder of the importance of memory, resilience, and standing against injustice, regardless of political or cultural divides.
A Tribute to Strength and Memory
In the face of unimaginable grief, Yarden Bibas’ story reminds us all of the resilience of the human spirit. Draiman’s personal outreach and the power of music to heal demonstrate that even in the darkest times, there are glimmers of hope. “Hold on to Memories” will forever stand as a tribute to those lost and a source of strength for those who remain.
