Thinking about starting a family? Preparing your body and mind for pregnancy is one of the most important things you can do to ensure a healthy experience for both you and your future baby. Pregnancy isn’t just about what happens after conception—it’s about making mindful decisions beforehand that set the stage for a successful journey. According to Dr. Kandis Samuels, MD, MPH, a family medicine expert who provides gynecological and prenatal care, the earlier you start, the better your chances of a healthy pregnancy and baby.
Let’s dive into the top 10 steps for pre-pregnancy planning, covering physical health, lifestyle changes, emotional well-being, and more.

Step 1: Start Taking Folic Acid Daily
Why it matters:
Folic acid plays a vital role in early fetal development, especially in forming the neural tube—which becomes the baby’s brain and spinal cord.
- Dosage: 400 mcg (micrograms) daily
- When to start: At least 1 month before trying to conceive
- Why early: Neural tube defects, like spina bifida, develop within the first few weeks—often before a woman knows she’s pregnant.
💡 Pro Tip: While many foods are fortified with folic acid, a supplement ensures you get the recommended daily amount.
Step 2: Discontinue Birth Control Safely
Time your transition wisely.
- If you’re using birth control pills, vaginal rings, or patches, stop them at least one month before trying to conceive.
- For injectable contraception (e.g., Depo-Provera), it can take up to 10 months for ovulation to normalize.
🎯 Goal: Give your body time to adjust and begin tracking your menstrual cycles.
Step 3: Maintain a Regular Exercise Routine
Exercise is essential for both preconception health and pregnancy readiness.
- Recommended: 150 minutes of moderate-to-intense aerobic exercise weekly
- Add 2 days/week of strength or resistance training
Benefits include: - Improved cardiovascular health
- Better weight management
- Stress relief and hormonal balance
Step 4: Achieve a Healthy Weight
Why BMI matters:
Your weight, measured through Body Mass Index (BMI), plays a role in fertility and pregnancy outcomes.
- Being underweight or overweight can cause ovulation issues and complications like gestational diabetes or preeclampsia.
🥗 Focus on a balanced diet: Choose a sustainable eating plan—this is a lifestyle shift, not a temporary diet.
Step 5: Eliminate Harmful Substances
Avoid anything that could harm your baby, even before conception.
Quit:
- Smoking (including vaping)
- Alcohol
- Recreational drugs (including marijuana)
🛑 These substances are linked to birth defects, premature birth, low birth weight, and developmental disorders.
Step 6: Minimize Environmental Hazards
Be aware of toxins at home and in the workplace.
Common exposures include:
- Heavy-duty cleaning products (like bleach)
- Pesticides or agricultural chemicals
- Industrial solvents
🧤 Protective measures: Use gloves, ensure proper ventilation, and limit direct exposure wherever possible.
Step 7: Know Your Family Medical History
Your family health history can reveal risks such as:
- Birth defects
- Gestational diabetes
- High blood pressure
- Mental health conditions like anxiety or depression
📋 Discuss this with your doctor to assess your risk and develop a proactive prevention plan.
Step 8: Address Emotional & Mental Health
Emotional well-being is just as important as physical health.
Pregnancy can bring hormone-driven mood swings, anxiety, or even depression. Preparing mentally helps:
- Build emotional resilience
- Improve partner communication
- Reduce the risk of postpartum depression
💬 Tip: Don’t hesitate to seek therapy or support groups even before pregnancy.
Step 9: Choose a Trusted Healthcare Provider
If you don’t already have one, find a doctor or OB-GYN you’re comfortable with.
They can:
- Guide you through your preconception checklist
- Provide tests and screenings
- Monitor your overall reproductive health
👩⚕️ Personalized care makes a difference.
Step 10: Schedule a Preconception Counseling Visit
Your preconception visit is your blueprint for a healthy pregnancy.
During this appointment, your doctor will:
- Review medications you’re currently taking
- Evaluate potential risks based on your lifestyle and family history
- Provide personalized health advice
- Update your vaccinations if needed
Frequently Asked Questions:
Q1: How long before trying to conceive should I start pre-pregnancy planning?
A: Ideally, start planning at least 3-6 months before trying to conceive. This gives you time to adjust lifestyle habits, take folic acid, and track ovulation.
Q2: Is it safe to exercise while trying to get pregnant?
A: Yes! Moderate exercise improves fertility and overall health. Avoid overexertion, especially if you’re new to fitness.
Q3: Why is folic acid important before pregnancy?
A: It helps prevent neural tube defects like spina bifida. Starting early ensures your baby gets proper nutrients from the very start.
Q4: Can I still drink alcohol before I’m pregnant?
A: It’s best to stop alcohol completely when you begin trying to conceive. Alcohol can harm a developing fetus even before you know you’re pregnant.
Q5: What should I ask during a preconception visit?
A: Ask about your health risks, required vaccines, safe medications, and what lifestyle changes are recommended based on your history.