Ensuring children receive nutritious meals can be a challenge, whether you are a parent or a grandparent. Between busy schedules, picky eaters, and the temptation of processed snacks, making healthy choices can seem overwhelming. However, with a little planning and the right approach, you can set your children or grandchildren on the path to lifelong healthy eating habits.
Bayhealth Family Medicine Resident Physician Samantha Ginder, DO, shares expert insights to help you navigate mealtimes with ease.

Why Healthy Eating Matters for Kids
Children’s diets play a critical role in their growth, energy levels, and cognitive function. Poor dietary habits can lead to sluggishness, obesity, and long-term health issues. By prioritizing nutritious meals, you help ensure that kids develop strong bones, sharp minds, and healthy habits that last a lifetime.
How to Make Mealtimes Healthy and Enjoyable
1. Involve Kids in Meal Planning
One of the best ways to encourage healthy eating is to include kids in the process. From grocery shopping to meal prepping, children are more likely to enjoy their meals when they have a say in what goes on their plates.
Tips to Get Kids Involved:
- Let them pick out fresh fruits and vegetables at the store.
- Give them simple tasks like washing produce or stirring ingredients.
- Talk about the nutritional benefits of different foods.
- Make it a fun experience by allowing them to help assemble their meals.
2. Create Balanced Plates with Proper Portions
A well-balanced meal ensures that kids get the right nutrients to fuel their bodies. A simple way to remember how to portion meals is:
- 50% Vegetables – Colorful options like carrots, spinach, and bell peppers.
- 25% Protein – Lean meats, eggs, beans, or tofu.
- 25% Carbohydrates – Whole grains like brown rice, quinoa, or whole wheat bread.
3. Limit Processed Foods and Sugary Drinks
While convenient, processed foods and sugary beverages can cause energy spikes followed by crashes. Instead, opt for whole foods that provide steady energy throughout the day.
Healthier Alternatives:
- Swap sugary drinks for water, milk, or homemade smoothies.
- Choose fresh fruit over candy for natural sweetness.
- Make homemade granola bars instead of buying pre-packaged snacks.
4. Focus on Nutrient-Dense Foods
Kids need a variety of vitamins and minerals to support their growth. While supplements can be useful, it’s best to get nutrients from whole foods.
Essential Nutrients & Food Sources:
- Omega-3 Fatty Acids (Brain health) – Found in fish, avocados, and chia seeds.
- Calcium (Bone strength) – Found in milk, yogurt, and cheese.
- Iron (Energy production) – Found in lean meats, spinach, and legumes.
- Fiber (Digestion) – Found in whole grains, fruits, and vegetables.
5. Be Patient with Picky Eaters
Many children go through phases of refusing new foods. The key is to continue introducing healthy options in different ways.
Strategies for Dealing with Picky Eaters:
- Offer a variety of foods in small portions.
- Present foods in fun shapes or colorful arrangements.
- Encourage kids to try at least one bite before deciding they don’t like something.
- Serve the same food in different ways—roasted, mashed, or blended into a smoothie.
6. Meal Prep for Convenience
A little preparation can go a long way in ensuring healthy meals are always available.
Easy Meal Prep Tips:
- Cook grains and proteins in bulk to use throughout the week.
- Pre-cut vegetables and store them in airtight containers for quick snacks.
- Pack lunches the night before to save time in the morning.
Frequently Asked Questions:
1. How can I make healthy eating fun for kids?
You can make meals fun by turning them into colorful creations, using cookie cutters for sandwiches, and letting kids help with cooking. The more involved they are, the more likely they’ll enjoy their food.
2. What are some quick, healthy snacks for kids?
Some great options include yogurt with berries, apple slices with peanut butter, homemade trail mix, and whole-grain crackers with cheese.
3. How do I handle a child who refuses to eat vegetables?
Try blending vegetables into smoothies, incorporating them into favorite dishes, or serving them with dips like hummus or ranch dressing.
4. Is it okay to give kids dessert?
Yes! The key is moderation. Opt for healthier treats like fruit parfaits, dark chocolate, or homemade oatmeal cookies instead of high-sugar processed sweets.
5. What drinks should kids avoid?
Limit sugary sodas, fruit juices, and energy drinks. Water, milk, and homemade smoothies are the best choices for hydration and nutrition.